Gay Sex Advice: Do What You Like Then Do What He Likes

Orally satisfying your partner is an almost natural instinct for most gay men. It often seems as though once we internally acknowledge that we are a man who prefers having sex with another man, we suddenly are aware of the pleasures of sucking our partner's cock/dick. No one needs to explain it to us.

Somewhere, deep within our psyche, we just automatically know that our man likes to have his cock/dick sucked and we are all to happy to do so. We then discover that it is just as enjoyable for us both as kissing. And oral sex is just as pleasant and erotic as kissing is for the both of us.

Then, once we've mastered the oral sexual experience, another urge tells us that the next step in our sexual exploration is the anus. We discover that it offers as much pleasure as oral sex, often times more so. Taking the cock/dick inside of our ass (anus) isn't as instinctive as it is in our mouths. It sometimes takes a little time and patience in becoming accustomed to having an organ as large as a fully erect cock/dick constantly thrusting inside our rectum, but once the prostate is massaged by our partner's cock, the pleasure and ecstasy is immeasurable. 

The joy that being fucked (penetrated) by our partner is so great that we want to share that with our man. This desire to share our pleasure with the man who gave us this experience is natural and an almost reflexive gesture. However, if we both climaxed (cum, ejaculated) while we were being fucked, this same longing may not be possible immediately. All men aren't able to repeat their sexual thrills in a back-to-back sequence. 

Be advised that not all men are agreeable to being fucked. For some, this is seen as a rejection of their masculinity, for others, it is a cultural taboo. Some find the act of being penetrated anally as just plain uncomfortable. For whatever the reason, no one should be forced to perform any act that they object to.

Take care and stay proud and bare!

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