The Cock Report, Part I

There are times when we, as gay/same gender loving men (and bisexual men, too), feel the need for a cock/dick/penis to massage, stroke, fondle and to anally or orally satisfy our inner cravings. This is natural for us as we were all created as both social and sexual beings. This is a part of who we really and honestly are. 

Besides, masturbation gets boring after a while. 

This urge to seek out a partner for sexual release manifests itself in our erections (the penis becoming elongated, swollen and very hard (stiff). This growth in size usually results in our manhood becoming extremely uncomfortable, especially when retrained by tight-fitting underwear. 

Our erections often seem to take on "a life of their own" when they are freed from the constraints of clothing. The erection constantly reminds us that it indeed has needs that require our attention!

Fortunately for us, nature has endowed us with a means of satisfying our desire as we search for our perfect partner. Yes, masturbation is boring and monotonous at times. But considering the alternative, a perpetual erection, it could be much worse!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

Gay Sex Advice: Do What You Like Then Do What He Likes

Orally satisfying your partner is an almost natural instinct for most gay men. It often seems as though once we internally acknowledge that we are a man who prefers having sex with another man, we suddenly are aware of the pleasures of sucking our partner's cock/dick. No one needs to explain it to us.

Somewhere, deep within our psyche, we just automatically know that our man likes to have his cock/dick sucked and we are all to happy to do so. We then discover that it is just as enjoyable for us both as kissing. And oral sex is just as pleasant and erotic as kissing is for the both of us.

Then, once we've mastered the oral sexual experience, another urge tells us that the next step in our sexual exploration is the anus. We discover that it offers as much pleasure as oral sex, often times more so. Taking the cock/dick inside of our ass (anus) isn't as instinctive as it is in our mouths. It sometimes takes a little time and patience in becoming accustomed to having an organ as large as a fully erect cock/dick constantly thrusting inside our rectum, but once the prostate is massaged by our partner's cock, the pleasure and ecstasy is immeasurable. 

The joy that being fucked (penetrated) by our partner is so great that we want to share that with our man. This desire to share our pleasure with the man who gave us this experience is natural and an almost reflexive gesture. However, if we both climaxed (cum, ejaculated) while we were being fucked, this same longing may not be possible immediately. All men aren't able to repeat their sexual thrills in a back-to-back sequence. 

Be advised that not all men are agreeable to being fucked. For some, this is seen as a rejection of their masculinity, for others, it is a cultural taboo. Some find the act of being penetrated anally as just plain uncomfortable. For whatever the reason, no one should be forced to perform any act that they object to.

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

Reciprocity

I'm certain that I'm not the only one who's experienced this situation. You're really into sex with a man and all he wants to do is to sit back and let you service his needs and desires. As though we're only there to please him and have no needs or feelings of our own. 

Now, I'm all for giving my man exactly what he wants and when he wants it. That doesn't bother me in the least. But sometimes, sex just isn't just all about his pleasure. I have desires that need to be met, also.

One of the greatest rewards that we derive from sex encounters are the giving and the receiving of sexual gratification for both partners. What's good for one is good enough for the other, right?

Of course, we all know that semen (cum) exchange is an unsafe sexual practice that can contribute to the transmission of STIs (sexually transmitted infections), including HIV (the virus that causes AIDS,

However, as long as you know your sexual partner and both of you are uninfected, the risk of disease transmission is greatly reduced. So learn your partner's status and if he's negative, then share the cum!

I readily admit to being a "cum-slut." I like the taste of my partner's semen and I love sucking his cock (actually, everything about his cock, wherever it is inside me)! LOL!

Especially when he "deep throats" me with his man-tool! 

And then offers a sexy kiss to end my consumption of his semen explosion! And all of this is just the initial foreplay as we both are fully committed to the process of sexual reciprocity (what he does to me is likewise fine for me to do with him). This practice is a major part of what makes our lovemaking mutually desirable and pleasurable for us both!

He matches my oral skills with those of his own in order for us both to be gratified and rewarded.

We both have the immense satisfaction of knowing the success that comes from a job well done! LOL! After he feeds you, remember to return the favor!

The best way to learn what your sexual partner or buddy likes or dislikes is to talk about this subject before engaging in any sexual activity. This discussion can take place while you're both engaged in foreplay and demonstrating to each other exactly what you like (and hope) will happen!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

Author's Note: The above GIF images are of one of my favorite gay porn actors, Dominic Santos, and his video production partner. I selected these images in part because of my admiration for Dominic Santos and because they reflect my theme of reciprocity. 

Masturbation

Almost all men have experienced moments in their lives when they were alone with the strongest possible urge for sexual release (explosion). Probably, more men have these desires than they are willing to admit. For some strange reason, the majority of men are reluctant to openly admit to performing masturbation. Funny, because we all know that we've all done it. 

There is nothing shameful about this. We are all endowed with a natural release mechanism for these uncontrollable feelings. This is called masturbation. It is our means of dealing with these consuming passions without endangering others. 

Far better that we pound the hell out of our manhood than to take out our frustrations on someone else!

The relief that we feel after our personal workout is far better (and safer) than harming another man! Besides, it's an excellent cardio workout! 

If it feels good, then do it! 

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride