No matter your preference for your sexual position/role, there comes a time when regardless of your partner's ability or skills, you both become consumed by your desires and passions. For some, these moments are all-too-rare and for others, they are an everyday occurrence.
For those who frequently experience the fires of passionate heat when consummating their intimacy with their romantic partners, whatever it is that you and your partner are doing: don't stop! If you've ever had an emotion-less encounter in your life, by now you both realize just how fortunate you both are! Keep the "flame" and the love alive! If you doubt my word, then continue reading this brief post.
If, instead, you often-times find that both you and your sexual partner find yourselves leaving the bed (or wherever you regularly fuck) feeling empty and unfulfilled, then perhaps the both of you should have a serious discussion about what each one (or more) of you feels is missing.
Most of us who are sexually active know from experience that not every time we "bang the boots" (fuck, have anal intercourse) is going to be a life-shattering and earth-moving moment. We're only human, after all, and no matter how much we want to be perfect in bed (or the floor, table, etc), there are other factors beyond our control that enter into the equation (our partner, fatigue, stress, the setting and how much alcohol or other substances) and affect our fornication (having sex). All of these definitely have an impact on our passion experience.
If the intense passion and excitement isn't present in your sexual dynamic, perhaps it is time to have a dialogue with your partner. If he feels the same as you, then it maybe time for the both (or more) of you to discuss sexual fantasies to see what appeals to you. Try these as a way of enhancing your love-making. Or, better still, strategically place a can of whipped creme in your bedroom. Use it to bring some excitement into your carnal foreplay. Role-playing often satisfies the need for adding some spice and zest to having sex.
If you're always the "bottom" partner in your relationship, try being more aggressive and dominating your man. Sometimes, switching positions with your partner (from top to bottom, reverse the position) helps to bring a new dynamic to having sex together. Sometimes, the introduction of a third party into the equation improves the intimate quality of a relationship.
Always keep in mind that communication between all persons involved in a relationship is critical to improving love-making. When talking to your significant other(s), remember to avoid being accusatory and demanding. Nothing can ruin a situation more than letting a man think think his bedroom skills are disappointing and in need of rejuvenation. After all, we all have egos!
Take care and stay proud and bare!
ReNude Pride
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