Sex On The Beach

Oral sex, that is! But then that's obvious with one dude on his knees! 

Happy Labor Day!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

Rimming: Tips For Tops!

Rimming, also known as "eating ass," is a sexual foreplay practice whereas the top (the man who is going to penetrate (fuck) his bottom in the ass (buttocks) helps to relax his partner and at the same time enables his bottom to gradually begin to enlarge his anal opening in order to receive his erect penis (cock, dick) with minimal discomfort.

Rimming generally occurs after the bottom has stimulated (either manually, orally or both) the tops penis to its approximate full erection. It is the responsibility of the bottom to clean and flush his anal opening prior to the sexual foreplay commencing. 

Generally, the top uses his mouth and lips to begin the erotic coaxing of his bottom's anal opening to heighten arousal, relax the sphincter muscles and to open the anal chute to receive his enlarge and erect penis. Rimming is not an automatic guarantee of opening the ass (buttocks) but it does heighten both the arousal and the receptiveness of the bottom to, minimally, receive the penis inside. The sensation is erotic for the bottom similar to orally stimulating the penis to become erect. It is usually accompanied by gently manually massaging the buttock cheeks.  

The top then uses his tongue to insert inside the anal opening which, in turn, further relaxes the sphincter muscle and this is where I am beginning to moan in anticipation of being fucked (penetrated) by my partner and to writhe my body with anxious desire to be fucked! As we all know, the tongue is a very potent and erotic body muscle that aids our passion sensors. 

A practiced top knows how to take his bottom to the brink of desire to where we are hungry to be fucked. Our asses respond to this arousal by enthusiastically encouraging out top to fuck us with both passion and power so that we may both reach ejaculation simultaneously and with immense pleasure!  

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

Skinny-Dipping Bromance

There's quite a bit of foreplay and sexual opportunities available to us during the summertime. All we need to do is to be a little cautious and discrete and, of course, imaginative. There's no limit to all the endless possibilities. 

Skinny-dipping (swimming naked) is always a favorite seasonal past-time that opens up many moments of foreplay and sex that may not be available during the rest of the year. 

As a bottom-man (one who enjoys getting fucked - penetrated - in my ass), having another man rim (or eat-my-ass) me while we're in the water is a particular favorite. Having my prospective top (the guy who inserts his erect penis into my ass) to rim (relax my sphincter) with his lips and tongue while submerged is appealing and erotic.  

As my partner surfaces to breathe, it is an extra treat to have him brush his erection against my ass. This is the best preview of the proverbial cumming attractions (when he ejaculates his man-nectar - cum/semen - inside my willing and hungry hole)!  

As he releases his air from his lungs, he creates bubbles that envelope my ass-crack and provide a bonus thrill. It's almost as good as when he massages my prostrate while furiously fucking me during our actual sexual coupling! 

Try it! I promise you'll be a skinny-dipper for life! 

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

The View For A Bottom Enthusiast - A Patriotic Salute!

If you're really serious about being a bottom-man, (in a gay relationship, the one who takes the cock/dick/penis inside his ass) then get used to the view above. Your top-man (the man who inserts his erection into the bottom's ass) is standing above you giving you a up-close and personal view of his erect manhood. It's a sight that you know you'll enjoy as he begins his fucking (penetration) ritual. 

So get familiar with this scenery. It will provide you with endless pleasure and joy for years to come. Trust me, I've been a bottom-man since 2004 and I still love it! A firm erect cock (dick, penis) is a man-tool that is guaranteed to deliver immeasurable pleasure over and over again! 

The man with the hypnotic cock above is one of my all-time favorite porn stars, Dominic Santos. Even though he is a powerful and energetic bottom-man for the camera, he still swings a mean dick and he's most definitely sweet eye-candy for both bottoms and tops alike! This sexy man is the son of an Italian father and an African-American mother, which explains his universal appeal to gay men everywhere!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

The Stripping Game

You and your date have just returned to your place after a very interesting first date dinner. You've both decided that you're mutually attracted to each other and agree to taking this date to the physical level to get the tension out of the air.

Introduce an interesting and fun technique into your usual bedroom foreplay by engaging in a stripping game like our two dudes above. It helps both to relax and relieves any nervousness about your first time together.

It also affords each of you to "check-out" one another without being so obvious and rudely staring. 

You both alternately strip off an item of clothing and then toss it to your partner allowing him st smell it and view your growing nakedness.

It gives both an unfettered and unobstructed view of your anatomy and gives a chance to have a brief fantasy before the sexual dynamics come into play.

An unofficial preview of cumming attractions trailer, so to speak. 

An opportunity to stand in unabashed pride before your man in all your glory.

And his, too!

Now, it's time to get down to the serious business at hand...one of you fucking the other's ass!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

Stripping For Sex

For me, part of the eroticism of the sexual act (in my own case, getting fucked - penetrated- by my partner) is watching my soon-to-be undress (strip) before we begin our serious foreplay. If we've been passionately kissing prior to stripping off our clothes, this time is especially a "turn-on" if he's aroused and is eager for sex himself. 

This sighting of his very generous and engorged manhood (erection) excites me and makes me want him inside me even more than I did when we first began kissing. This is particularly true if it is the first time the two of us are being intimate. It makes my buttocks desire his cock/dick/penis inside my mouth and my ass all that much more.

The very idea of his tongue inserting itself inside my hungry anal-hole, his fingers up inside me as he opens me up so he can insert his firm cock into me causes my blood to race and me to gasp for breath. I fully know that soon I'll enter the gates of paradise. There's no turning off my lust now as my own dick begins to ooze pre-cum.  

I'm ready for his engorged manhood inside me now!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

A New Play-Mate!

It is not at all uncommon for the prospective "bottom" (the man who gets fucked or penetrated by the erect cock/penis/dick of another) to be overly curious and fascinated by what is about to deliver his ass into paradise. Humans are, after all, entirely human. We all like to try and experience new and exciting things and our sexual nature is no different from the rest of our humanity.  

Some bottoms are even obsessed with their partner's penis and if the encounter is the first time with a new sexual partner, then they may want to "size-up" the manhood (cock/dick) prior to the beginning of the foreplay to being fucked. This desire is not that unusual or all that uncommon.

Sometimes, this curiosity is satisfied by orally taking the top's (the man who inserts his penis into the bottom) cock and measuring it with his eyes and mouth. Other times, generally when the man is from a different race or has a penis with extraordinary attributes (length, girth, etc), the bottom wants to manually explore the male organ prior to insertion in either his mouth or ass. 

It is important for both men to understand that this inquisitiveness is perfectly natural. Most of us prefer to know and as we are a sensory-based species, sometimes we learn through tactile (touch) exploration.  

As a man who prefers to be fucked (penetrated in the ass/rectum, I know all too well the desire to assess the manhood (penis) of the dude who's about to enter me. This investigation helps to prepare us bottoms (we men who take the penis inside our buttocks) for what is going to be thrust inside us. 

So don't let our obsession and fascination with your manhood (cock/dick/penis) upset or confuse you. As same gender loving men, the vast majority of us are all interested in the dick and the pleasure it brings to us all!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride

Stripping Rituals

I find that there is nothing quite as sexy and sensuous as having my partner undress me, at his own pace, prior to us having sex. As most of you are already aware, in my case, that means just before he fucks me. I have no shame about preferring the "bottom" or penetrated position. 

I enjoy a man stripping me. I find it exciting as to what he removes and when. No two men take off clothing in the exact same order and I've yet to meet a man who undresses me in the same order every time we are sexually intimate. I guess this is due to precisely what he is in the mood for at any given moment. 

Some men are seriously aroused through foreplay and/or other activities that heighten the the anticipation of him fucking me. others seem to linger at times over oral involvement rather than the actual deed itself. Then there are those who want their cock/dick/penis to plunge away immediately without any consideration to my personal feelings or needs. I guess the old adage, "to each, his own" holds true in bed (or wherever we are)!

This observation I've found to be true no matter how my partner prepares himself (strips) prior to our being intimate together. I've been with those who are buck-ass naked before I'm even in the bedroom or have arrived at their home. On the other hand, I've also been with men who strip off all my clothing while they are fully clothed and only remove what is absolutely necessary in order to get their erect manhood inside my willing and usually eager ass (buttocks). 

I realize that some men enjoy using their stripping off my clothes as a "control" factor in our sexual dynamic and for the most part, it doesn't bother me in the least. I'm confident enough in my masculinity and my sexuality to where I don't feel the need to always assert control over the situation. I know that I can work my ass (buttocks) in such a way that I'll get what I want and what I need before our coupling is complete. I honestly enjoy being a "power" bottom man in my relationships! 

There have also been a number of occasions when my partner has gotten me completely nude and then had me put on a jock-strap so he could plow my buttocks at will. I guess he figured that if I was wearing a jock-strap, my cock/dick/penis would be completely covered by the cup/pouch and he wouldn't have to perform oral sex on me! However, on those times when this happened, he didn't hesitate in putting his tongue deep inside my anus in order to "open" my sphincter! 

And, of course, there is always the enthusiastic partner ("top") who has no patience with the accommodating bottom who is sincerely trying his very best to satisfy not only his partner but his best friend as well! Customer service can only go so far! LOL!

The beauty, joy and wonder of gay men and sex! Sigh!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

Poolside Snack

As a man who prefers to be the bottom in any sexual situation, I know full well the pleasure derived from having my ass opened up by the hot tongue of my partner. The pleasure-factor is enhanced by the fact that the tongue that is prodding my ass will soon be replaced by the throbbing cock (dick, penis) of my partner-to-be. Having one's ass eaten by a well-endowed man is the equivalent of the most decadent dessert imaginable. 

Some might say that the top (man who will be fucking the two bottoms above) is being somewhat greedy by having both dudes offering up their asses for his tongue. After all, he is only able to fuck them one at a time.  But, hey! Wait a minute. Are any of us qualified to judge? 

First, none of us know the size of his cock (dick, penis). It just may be the epitome of perfection and of a prodigious proportion that it guarantees satisfaction to any ass fortunate enough to experience it. That alone is enough to instill patience into whichever guy has to be fucked second. Believe me, I've been in a situation similar and I can let you know it was indeed worth waiting for!

Sometimes, being the second one fucked by the top offers more pleasure than being the first. Some men, knowing they have two willing bottoms awaiting their cock, have a tendency to hit (fuck, penetrate) the first in the most elemental fashion in order for them to move on to the waiting bottom. By the time they arrive to "number 2" they're able to give a more thorough and more pleasing service and thrusts to their passion that what they provided the first dude. 

Not implying that they ever gave a "lousy" fuck. I'm sure whatever sexual performance they offered was good. It just stands to reason that the performance anxiety isn't present for their second partner. They are able to be more attentive and to take their time. Sometimes, being second does offer it own set of benefits.   

Enjoying his treat in anticipation of penetrating his ass! The thrill here is for both partners, equally. This often overlooked action by tops is misunderstood by many as only pleasing for the bottom while the reality is the fact that "eating ass" is just as satisfying for both sexual partners. 

A special note to all tops (the men who prefer to fuck other men): if you want your bottom to take your entire dick (cock, penis), it is advisable to each one of you to take your time in "eating ass" (orally stimulating your partner's anus to increase its' ability to readily accept your manhood). The effort of gently massaging and prodding your partner's anal opening helps to relax his sphincter muscles and increases his desire for your dick inside him. The more attention you give to this task, the better your bottom will be for you and your man-tool!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride