Synchronized Cumming

Now that summer is here, there's really nothing better on a pleasant day than a good fuck-in-the-woods. I mean, doing the "natural" (fucking) surrounded by nature. I've done this enough times in my life, both as a top (the one inserting my penis into my partner's ass) and as a bottom (the one being penetrated by my partner). It can be an exhilarating and sensual moment between two men. Another benefit is the intense feeling of intimacy when you're both bare-assed naked and out in the open: the sensation of being exposed and transparent together is greater than in the privacy of four walls. 

Originally, I intended this post and the accompanying images to be completely about the intimacy between a couple having sex in nature. However, a friend of mine recently wrote on his blog an entry entitled Cummin Too Quickly. Click the title to be linked to his post. After reading his entry, I decided to incorporate his theme into this posting here. From my own sexual experience, I understand the frustration of my partner, regardless of sexual position, cumming or ejaculating too soon before I have the opportunity to satisfy my own needs. 

When two men fuck, whether it's a casual encounter or a committed relationship, the sex can be disappointing if one ejaculates (climaxes, cums) before the other fully experiences the joy of the sexual coupling. This is especially true if it is a chance meeting and spontaneous sex. Since it involves two different men with no previous history together, neither one is fully aware of what really ignites the passion of the other. 

For example, I love my nipples being fondled and sucked. That's one guaranteed way to get me riled up and anxious for sex. Aaron (my husband) loves his armpits being licked and tantalized by my tongue and that gets him hard (erect) and ready for action. We know this about us because of our history together. 

If we were meeting for the first time, we would not know this about one another. The occasion would just be "plain" sex without the fireworks and stimulation that we otherwise would offer one another. Probably, one of us would cum (ejaculate) well before the other. That would mean one of us would wish the other to "hurry-up and nut (ejaculate)!" This tends to detract from the sexual release pleasure factor if the two men even decide to "hook-up" (have sex) again.

Whereas, if the two men having sex have been together sexually before, they obviously are familiar with one another, at least physically, and are able to recognize the erogenous traits of one another. There sexual experience in nature, even though spontaneous, will be better than the casual encounter and ultimately more rewarding and pleasurable. 

In a first-time encounter with another man, communication is key if you both want to maximize the pleasure from your efforts. If you're a top (the one who fucks), be specific about what you want. Let him know what makes you feel good and what you really don't like. Give him the chance to share his desires with you.

If you're the bottom (taking the erection inside your ass), it is equally important for you to be honest with your partner, too. Let him know how you like it and what makes you excited and enthusiastic about sex. Neither one of you are "mind-readers" or possess telepathic powers. A couple of minutes of total truthfulness can make this hook-up (sex) among the best you've ever had. 

Its a good idea to express your needs before you start having sex. During foreplay is a good time to share your erotic desires and to maybe even incorporate a little role-play into the experience. The role-play scenario helps with communication, ensures that you both understand what's being said and is a terrific means of making certain that the other man is really listening to your suggestions. 

If you're experiencing your passion outside, it is advisable to discuss what you want to happen should someone stumble upon you both while you're both being wildly intimate. Do you stop or continue? When this has happened to me, I always opt to continue as though nothing unusual is occurring. If the person wants to stay and watch, I always have a camera handy and offer it him. Most are too embarrassed and end up walking away. Sometimes, inviting the third person to join in the action is a good way to turn a mediocre coupling into a dynamic three-way (especially if your original playmate was inattentive to your needs). 

If your natural intimacy is with a regular "fuck-buddy," a habitual sexual partner (casual or frequent), or the man with whom you share an established relationship, of course, he already knows what "ignites your flame" and "gets your engine running." Now is the time you two can try a little fantasy in an outdoors environment to add a special twist to your lovemaking. Be creative but also be specific incorporating the role-play model. Just be careful not to start any forest fires while you're enacting every fundamentalists nightmares of hell! 

Remember to talk to your partner in case another person(s) discovers your ass being drilled by his erect dick (cock, penis). If the interloper(s) stay and watch, don't be embarrassed and stop. They obviously aren't distressed by their discovery or else they would have inconspicuously backed away. Again, feel free to invite them to join in (if you both consented to this option). Remember the adage: The more the merrier? Let your fantasy take a "walk on the wild side!"

Above all, be sure that you allow your partner to satisfy his needs and desires and don't neglect reminding him of yours. The whole idea of having imaginative, wild sex in nature is to release all your sexual inhibitions and tensions. This is what makes this afternoon amazing and special for you both. Create a memory that you both can recall in the future, especially on those boring, dreary days of the oncoming winter. It even may help to increase the passion in your bedroom!

In my own life, after Aaron (my husband) has cum (ejaculated) inside my ass, I always get on my knees in order to milk any remaining cum (semen) from his cock (dick, penis). When I do this, he always gets a wide grin on his chin that let's me know that all is right in our world!

Take care and stay proud and bare!

ReNude Pride